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Back in Black

SS took a break from the 24/7 aspect of our relationship and has recently made clear she wants it back....

Away From Keyboard

We booked a bed & breakfast this past weekend. Originally we were going to rent a cottage but we chose this route together.

One other thing, this B&B has a dungeon. 

That's right, we went to a Bed & Dungeon. 

We had no idea what to expect. I certainly had no clue what the hosts were like or their house. We just rolled the dice and took a risk. As usual, we also overpacked. Okay, I overpacked. What can I say, I have a boyscout mentality.

Full Metal Kink

It may not seem kinky however we went to a Medieval Festival. 

What were our goals? Fetwear and Jousting...

Ocular Entanglement

It seems that almost every time we're going to a kink event, we start fighting and wondering why we're going.

Why spend money to do something we can do at home? Why are we doing this fetish stuff? Why can't we get on the same page? Why are Doritos so expensive?

Fight, pout, grrrrrr, snap.

Then we step into the club or event and poof, everything is right as rain. All the problems disappear, our relationship feels normal and we fit perfectly together.


Lion Tamer

SoundlySmurfed was mad, really mad. Furious...

Where is the Bedroom?

Try as we might, some things just escape the bedroom...

The Replacement

If you've been following this blog, you'll know that SS and I have been doing fetish/kink/bdsm stuff from the very beginning. We didn't know that's what it was however later on we learned these things had labels and communities. We were interested to know more and meet others like us.


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